Here are her 30 tips for 30 years of marriage:
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***So I started highlighting my favorites but it lead to more than half...so just soak up every point!
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Don't speak before coffee. Ever.

Laugh with and at each other often.

Do fun stuff together.

Be good at apologizing quickly.

No secrets.

Don't take yourself too seriously.

Kiss and make up. Always.

Remember, your spouse is God's child.

Clarity is kindness.

Always have each other's back.

Champion one another's uniqueness.

Stay committed to growing and changing, together.

Celebrate one another, don't compete with each other.

Encourage and inspire one another.

Prefer one another.

Give each other your best, not your leftovers.

Don't expect from your spouse what you can only get from God.

Don't take each other for granted.

Not everything is a deal breaker.

Your spouse having friends is a gift.

Friends who are "pro" your marriage are also a gift.

Seek to understand over being understood.

Marriage is not everything, but it's the first thing if you are married.

Make sure your home is full of fun and full of peace.

Embrace one another's quirks.

Believe the best before the worst.

Ask before you assume.

Showing up with a surprise midday coffee is always a good idea.

Never stop praying for each other.

Be each other's biggest fan.

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PS: Here is the link to the linkedin post.